In the past, medical facilities were not the same as today and many children died. Therefore, it was believed that if the child survives for the six days, it will survive ever after no more danger threatening its life. Thus, they named a baby on the sixth day after its birthdate.
Becha Becha (baby ,baby)
In the old days, about a week into the birth of a baby, the ceremony of “Bacha Bacha” was held in the house of the baby’s father. The baby’s parents invited the baby’s grandparents and close relatives for one night. When everyone gathered, the grandfather would say “Azan” in the baby’s right ear and “Iqamah” in its left ear, and so to speak, the child would become a Muslim by this ritual. Then, as a prayer, the baby was carried hand in hand among the present guests in the ceremony. For the first time, after reading “Azan” and Iqamah in the baby’s ears, the grandfather places the child horizontally on his two hands and sings:
God protect our baby, baby
God, Muhammad and Ali protect your baby
Take the child_ and then the person next to him would take the child and say: give the child.
It means that God has blessed us with a child and this child is ours and it is God’s gift and may God and Hazrat-e Muhammad and Hazrat-e Ali take care of this child.
And in the same way, they carried the child hand to hand around the house, and the guests would repeat the same song as they held the baby. At the same time, one person was carrying a knife around the house. Then, they would choose a name for the baby consulting the elders and the parents, usually the baby’s name had already been chosen by the parents to be made official in this ceremony, and the ceremony ended with the baby’s name being chosen and the distribution of sugar and sweets. It should be noted that the receptions were not as elaborate as today and mostly sugar and dates were popular.
The Nakhl Symbol Ritual
Mourning for the sufferings of imams is rooted in Shia history. Such mourning is intertwined with the custom, culture and religious beliefs of each region and has been so customized. One of the most magnificent rituals of the Iranians is the Muharram ritual and mourning for Imam Hossein (AS) and his companions. The most passionate day of mourning in Muharram is the 10th day Ashura. Men and women, the old and the young leave their homes early in the morning to go to the mourning ritual of Imam Hossein. Mourning groups on this day start marching in the streets and mourning earlier than the previous days. Until around noon, the groups visit all the Hayats and wait by the Nakhl Symbol. Mourners get under the Nakhl Symbol according to an old tradition. This is one of the most magnificent and famous rituals of Ashura. In addition, Tabas has two Nakhl Symbols, which are known as the city’s Nakhl Symbol (Nakhl-e Miarzeh) and the Paein Mahale Nakhl Symbol (Hayat Fatemi). Dihshak region, which has been adjourned to Tabas for several years, has its own Nakhl Symbol demonstrated in the same region. Most villages have their own Nakhl Symbols. “Nakhl” in this ritual is the symbol of Seyyed al-Shohada’s coffin. The mourning Nakhl Symbol is very similar to the cedar tree. In Iranian culture, cedar is a symbol of freedom, bravery, immortality and the afterlife which in fact describes the spirit of the third Shia imam. This ritual aims to keep the event of Ashura and the bravery of Shias alive.
Everyone from the city and the surrounding villages wait around Imam Khomeini Square (the main square of the city) at noon, for the Nakhl Symbol to arrive. Following the noon and evening prayers, held with the participation of mourners in the main mosque of the city, the first Nakhl Symbol is moved by a group of mourners including all the Hayats of the city. The crowd is pioneered by a line of camels and drums moving towards the main square of the city along with men and women in mourning.
There are two horses decorated with green and black velvet fabrics and jewelry moving among the crowd along with the Nakhl Symbol by some “sadat” of the city with the mourners, and the people surrounding the horse sing their special laments. The Nakhl Symbol is beautifully decorated with green and black velvet fabrics, flowers, oranges and boxwood the night before the ritual by some special people skilled in decorating the Nakhl Symbol; strong men carry it among the mourners. The sorrow of the crowd and the mourners is incredibly moving since the beginning of the ritual to the end, impressing every viewer by the sufferings of Imam Hussain.
After crossing the square, Nakhel symbol is taken back to its original location, known as Hosseiniyeh Miarzeh which will sit still until tomorrow morning. Mourning men and women, along with camel caravans and mournering Hayats, immediately go to the Paein Mahale Nakhl Symbol (Fatemi Hayat) and carry this Nakhl Symbol on their shoulders and take it to the main square of the city with the same aforementioned order and sadness. There are so many young people who faint from Imam Hussein grief and are carried out of the crowd on the shoulders of the mourners to be treated. This ritual continues until around 3 o’clock in the evening, and after the ritual, the mourners are usually treated with hot food by Hayats.
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